The rules text messaging dating

You were very gorgeous and I enjoyed talking to you.You had so much energy last night, I love women with a lot of energy. I kind of lost you after a while and I couldn’t find you anywhere.

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If you have returned to the dating scene after an extended hiatus or have been dumped more times than you care to remember due to a misdirected text, it would behove you to brush up on your 21st-century dating etiquette.

At the top of that list is the list of new rules for dating that covers the sometimes mysterious world of texting.

I strongly believe men are responsible for initiating communication.

One of my male clients recently called because he hadn’t heard from the girl he’d just spent the night with.

But as a woman, if a man doesn’t think enough of me to pick up the phone and speak with me then I’m not interested…and I hope to empower all women to feel that way. So when you first meet someone set a boundary that you want to communicate verbally.

If a potential love interest texts instead of calling, text back, “Call me.” If they don’t, they may have saved you from future heartache.

He was confused as to whether she liked him or not. “No,” he said, “I was waiting to hear from her first.” “She’s waiting to hear from you,” I said.

“You’re the guy.” He had no idea that he should make the first contact.

Remember, the receiver has feelings, too (even if he or she is not good at showing them). It’s really easy to type out what you want and just hit send.

But that won’t get you the kind of response you need, and it gives the receiver permission to do the same.

Good communication is the foundation of a happy relationship. It is unbelievable to me that anyone would attempt to communicate relationship altering information via a text. Clients have told me they have said I love you for the first time, agreed to be exclusive, held entire arguments and even broken up without speaking a single word to each other. I also think it is cowardly to initiate a date via text.

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