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We are all fallen human beings, bent on foolishness and selfishness.

It’s natural to share some basic details of your life and to ask your date some basic details about his or hers, but going any deeper should be reserved for people whom you know well and trust. If your date talks about what he or she likes sexually or asks what you like on one of the first dates, your date just might be a sex addict.

(I wish I were kidding.) This is a serious red flag (showing no respect for boundaries) and you need to walk the other direction when you see it early in a dating relationship.

When someone speaks badly about an ex so soon with someone new, it’s a clear sign that he or she is still bitter and angry.

Starting a new relationship while you still feel bitter about your ex is like a carrying a suitcase of gasoline into the new relationship.

Actually, what really happens is that the warning signs are noted but are then swept under the rug in an anxious plea to block out the negative and only see the positive.

If you are on a date with someone who acts rudely to wait staff, cashiers, or others, don’t set off on a sermon about how to treat people – save your energy for someone better.

Juli Slattery is a TCW regular contributor and blogger.

When you first start dating someone new, there should be pretty much no drama.

I believe completely in the possibility for someone to change, but jealousy is one of the harder traits to treat and it takes a long time in therapy (often a couple years or more) for the jealous individual to understand what causes the jealousy and to learn how to let it go. Ever notice a pillow propped up on a couch that has a nifty little proverb stitched or needlepointed on it?

Well, the world is littered with decorative pillows that offer some sort of expression about how things that appear too good to be true often really are too good to be true.

In every dating relationship there are “red flags.” If you can’t identify them, most likely you don’t know the guy very well.

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