No money needed fucksite - Dating advice no spark

Now he acts like he's really into me, but I don't know how to say "I'm just not that into you, but it would be cool if we hung out." Is that even possible???

You're probably better off just saying "sorry, I'm not feeling it". Honesty is the best policy.....are just going to have to tell him....preferably not by text, email, or FB.... You're going to have to accept that there are plenty of guys that will NEVER accept a 'consolation' prize.

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.

Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...

yes, there are people who have friends they were hot for.

but, consider your own example--how did they first meet?

Hanging out probably isn't going to happen - he's a virtual stranger, after all, that is looking for romance, not to 'hang out'. Don't ask to "hang out"....."he acts like he's really into" probably isn't wanting to be your friend! When it comes to saying "No", there just ISN'T a 'nice' way to cushion the blow - so just keep it quick and simple.

Help him go find someone who does get butterflies instead of wasting his time with you. You do not really wish to "hang out with him" as that phrase is being artificially inserted to soften the blow. You can be POLITE when you decline ("No, Thank You.") It's staying factual, and to the point. I'm very new to the dating scene, so could use some advice.Tell him straight off you did not feel any connection. He kept texting all day so I finally had to tell him "I had a nice time with you but I'm just not feeling that chemistry/spark."In return he was a bit whiny about it...saying how none of the girls that he liked ever liked him, that he didn't know what it was about him that put them off (this, ha! He did say he understood that you do need that spark and wasn't super understanding but he did accept it and moved on.I have applied this method before but of course it didn't always work. Another approach would be to start ignoring, or not respond to their texts/calls with the same pre- meet zeal. Good luck :p Stop wasting his time and yours and forget about this nonsense of trying to become friends who don't have sex.Kinda like "I'm gonna shoot you in the leg ,but I am using a .32 instead of a .45,isn't that nice of me? "Go with the "I'm just not that into you" but leave out the "but it would be cool if we hung out." If he says yes to that, he's only doing it in hopes you'll change your mind and/or someday he'll be able to get into your pants. Just found out that Allen, who I worked with five years ago at my last job and who was crazy about me, the guy who wanted a serious relationship with me but I blew off ….I met up with a guy from POF, we get along very well, he's attractive, there just isn't that spark where I get butterflies in my stomach, want to have him close to me, get excited about his texts, etc.

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